what causes a friendship break up?
Some friends last a lifetime, while others only last a season. Some friends teach us what a good friend is by example, and others remind us of the lesson that when is the time to make choice and end the friendship. Before you walk away from friend, you can consider the cause to behind your desire to get some distance. From my perspective, I believe there are several prominent issues like lack of consideration and betrayal .
Consideration is one of the most important components in maintaining friendship, and the lack of consideration wills surely cause conflicts in the relationship .Usually in our interpersonal interactions, we all want to get warm care from friends , acquire inspiring support from friends during a rough time . Such help should be mutual. If one partner considers it as a matter of course, the other partner would feel chilling inside and eventually break up the friendship . Another severe factor could lead to direct separation is betrayal. Being betrayed by intimate friend is extremely miserable, it feels like the person you trust most gives a shot behind your back. I was once suffering betrayal in friendship thus trapped me into great pain. that happened six years ago. I was a talkative person especially confronting close friend, so I told almost all my secrets to her including my family affairs. One day, she found me low-spirited and asked me what happened. I told her that I was got injured from my parents ,and I asked her to keep secret because I don't want to get weird looks from others . However, on the next day, I found something strange because I got sympathetic eyesight from my classmates. Moreover, my teacher came to comfort me ,saying she felt sorry for my suffering and encouraged me. Finally I realized that my close friend leaked out my secret and I never forgave her.
In conclusion, I think lack of consideration and betrayal are the typical causes of cooling off friendship. In the case of friendship, We shall make rational choices to give up some disadvantageous relationship and cherish true friends.
I think your writing's topic is clear and easy to understand. And you explain clearly two factors of freindship with example. with reading example, i interested in your writing. yout essay has clear beginning and others. and the conclusion also make me remind of two factors of friendship. it is good essay i think. But i think it will be better if you mention in topic about the lack of consideration and betrayal in friendship. it will make the reader better understand about your writing!
ReplyDeleteYour writing is well structured and powerful. You pointed out two causes that breaks a friendship in your introduction and your thesis and continued that idea until the end of the writings. “From my perspective, I believe there are several prominent issues like lack of consideration and betrayal.” This seems to be your thesis. As a result, your ideas were delivered well. On the other hand, I have several suggestions for you.
ReplyDeleteFirst, you should have a title. A powerful title makes your writing easier to read and effective.
Second, you should divide your writing into paragraphs and give indentation to make your ideas clearer.
Third, you should mind your punctuations.
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Kim, Jusung / PSD