Kim Nam Ha/Chapter 2 first draft/2017 summer prose & paragraph

 

Love is like that, just feels good.

Just want to give you more and more every day

Every moment she is in my mind.

I am happy that you are by my side.

Love is like that, just you and me together.

 

If we list the relationship of people in order of intimacy, parent and child, husband and wife, brother, sister will be the top priority. However, husband and wife are the non blood related relation. The uniqueness of the relationship between married couple is that unlike other relationships, the beginning and the end of the relationship are at least based on the consensus. Two people who have lived on different life styles in different environments for about 30 years concede each other. Perhaps the reason why it was possible to make concessions in the process is probably the great excuse for love. But after getting married, couples start to get caught up in the idea that they do not want to concede much of what they concede before, and that the other person does not understand the opponent. In other words, I have conceded a lot in the meantime, and now in return I have to get something back. A little exaggerating to say, in the early days to get the other person's attraction or to make positive image, couples do act devoted and later in the period of marriage looking forward to the reward for the sacrifice they have endured. And the point at which both of them begin to get caught up in this idea is when conflict begins.

 

Since couples share their daily lives, they have to share a lot of things with each other, and conflicts are inevitable and sometimes disputes arise. The conflict is not the problem, but the solution is important.