In my opinion both women and men love each other equally. Of course, there might be a time when one loves the other more. For instance, a person who was leading the relationship or did his or her own effort to start the relation, would love the partner for the time being. However, how much we love changes over the time. The one who struggled to make a relation may feel void after his success in making a partner, he might feel less excited after accomplishing his goal, whereas the partner will start to grow her love towards him. Many couples fight over how much they love towards each oneself. One might say "I've loved you more than you, I did all this and this, that and that, but what did you for me?" This quarreling, however, isn't sound nor accurate on how much a person loves his partner.
My point is that a person's love cannot be constant and all ways equal to one's partner, there might be a time when one might love one another more and vice versa. So, I think it's needless to compare who is more loving towards their partner. This principle applies to both sexes regardless of whether it was the man or the woman who tried to start the relationship.
Seong Ji Lee
Wow I totally share same ideas as you. I do not understand why couples tend to compare the matter of affectino they have for each other and fight about it. They should not be calculating their love and just get into it. I also think it is the matter of who starts the relationship, not the gender. Normally, the first one who began the relationship happens to lose passion in loveas the time goes whereas the other side falls deeper. This is the tragic part of love. I think you did great job in explaining that relationship and each perspective along with last paragraph that clears your point. Your ideas are plausible due to well supported sentences. It would be even better to put some examples of couples you know or similar cases you have seen or heard somewhere. Nice job!:)
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