Man and woman love each other and get married, but not a few couples end their marriage with divorce. In addition, a divorce rate is still increasing nowadays. As the first time, they deeply love their partner, but why they broke up and go down different paths? There would be several reasons to cause divorce.
At first, differences in personality can bring divorce. When they first married, newly-married couples tend to see only good side of their spouse. However, as times goes by, they can also find the defects from each other. They will trying to fix them to ideal image as they want. They nag to each other, have a squabble, and do not talk than before. They fight more frequently and finally get divorce. In this case, they might call the main reason of this failure as personality difference, but exactly we can say this as the differences of life style.
There are people who have relaxed attitude and also there are opposites. Furthermore, someone like to keep house tidy and someone would never mind whatever is not arranged. Every person has own lifestyle and maintains it more than 20 years. How can they change it overnight? It would be impossible. However, people trying to get fix their partner what they think is wrong in very short period, and creates conflict. They should not respect each other's life style and finally broke up.
In second reason is economic problems. There's a saying "the cause of all the problem is money." Couples conflict with financial matters, such as where do we use our house budget, how much will we save it. When spouse is a big spender without any plan, this can also be the reason for divorce nowadays. Actually, many couples divorced with difference in spending patterns. As money is one of the important sources when they live together, so it is no wonder that fight for this problems.
In fact, examples above are all closely related with the matter of understanding and compromise. We cannot always see the lovely part of each other. When one couple excessively fantasize to marriage, they face the actuality of love, finally be disappointed. As in such time, especially, to overcome this "marriage ennui", the most important element is recognition of difference and tolerate. If there's any problems, they need to talk and find the way to solve troubles. On the other hand, couple divorce is caused by lack of this point.
Consequently, There are various reason why couples get divorced, such as difference in individuals, in spending patterns. Someone want to believe that love is eternal thing that does not never change, but I think reality is sometimes different from ideal. We should accept divorce as a natural phenomenon in our society.
In general, you're writing would have been more elaborate if you cared more about grammatical stuff. Other than that, I like your essay because I most certainly agree with your idea. Personality issues are among the top priority and economical aspects indeed, cannot be overlooked. It's really interesting to see the divorce rate skyrocketing these days... I don't know why people marry at the first place if they will end up with marital breakup
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